Ive stoped drugs for good, but it still doesnt mean there is no drugs in my system that could seriously affect my baby...


Im so confused right now guys... Im 16 turning 17 in 12 days from now, my moms in the hospital and my dad is idk..Im alone in the house most of the time and i have my sister here but she partys all the time so i barley ever see her...I need some advice! please!


all i hear is get an abortion! but im not for abortion! ive never been for abortion i believe you should only have it if you get raped, otherwise its your fault you didnt use protection and i know that..

but since i dont have any parent advising me on what should i do i need opinions from mothers or from girls who went through what im going through, please help me :[

Hey hun,

I am at univeristy and my baby was also unplanned, before I knew I was pregnant (i found out at 5 weeks) I used to go clubbing alot and did pills. When i found out I was really really worried about what I had done and how it had affected my baby. I had my 20 week scan yesterday and the baby was fine and had developed normally, i was really scared that my actions would have consequences on the baby but thankfully my little boy is fine! Don't feel guilty about the drugs, as long as u have stopped now then its o.k.
take care hun x x x

I dont do drugs but before I found out I was prenant I partyed hardcore for a coupla days and was told that in the beginning when something is not right then your body aborts the fetus! I cant say this always happens but in the 12th week you have the option to have tests and again in the 20th week. When you are anti abortion then you can really only wait and see how your pregnancy develops. Good Luck! Donna + Selina (inside). I am not for abortion either but then you need to consider every situation is different!