I am expecting my 2th child and my fiancee doesnt want me to have it. He keeps telling me that we cant afford it but i dont want to have an abortion i dont know what to do.

Hi lanie,

Is your fiancee the father of your 1st child? A 2nd baby shouldn't cost as much as the 1st baby. As now you have most things that are needed. I feel for you, as this is the time you need your partners support. I would be a mess if I didn't have my husband supporting me all the way. I find it funny when people say they can't afford to have a child. If we all waited until we could afford it, we'd never have them! A child wants love, not rich parents (although it would be nice! haha.) I hope you can sort things out, but don't do anything you don't believe in. Is there someone else you can confide in? Someone you can trust.

Wishing you a healthy pregnancy.
Nikki.xx

hi,
i understand where your partner is coming from(b/c mine is the exact same) for men its different. they are not as organised as us women,
they cant think positive about it, even though it will be fine!!
show him you will be able to cope with your finances - right them down.
Its true - you wont need to spend as much money with this one.
some men seem to hate chance & cant cope with it well.
but you need him to be supportive, be strong for know. if you dont want an abortion - done have one. or you could live with it for the rest of your life..
if he loves you he will come around in his own time. men can be so simple some times. why can they just not get on with it???!!!
GOOD LUCK.