im 16 and have discovered im pregnant its early on..about 3 weeks i never have thought about children yet and i have only been with the father for 2 months i am just about to study four A levels. the thought of having an abortion makes me feel ill and i dont feel i could do that and i wouldnt like the idea of giving my baby away. i am to scared to tell my mum or the father...would keeping the baby be a bad idea.

Hi there! Well when i was fifteen i discovered i was pregnant and like you i was scared out of my mind. Keeping the baby is NOT by any means a bad idea, but you have to keep in mind, you are going to have a lot more to juggle with the new little one constantly needing it's mum. I lost my baby when i was younger due to stress and well other things.... you have a blessing in your tummy just waiting to grow and live with you.
Just so this doesn't end sadly, I am currently pregnant agian three years later and My future husband and i can't wait to start our family.
The best person to tell is your mum because she was there for you many times before and she won't leave you high and dry on this one... no matter how much they scream at first, they love you and they will support you.
Good Luck!

i just want to saythank you for reply it has helped knowing that im not the only person to go through this and that other people have been through it and survived.
good luck witj your pregnancy and motherhood
thank you!

Hiya I was also in your position, I'm 17 and found out I was pregnant last year in october (I'd just started studying my A Levels). The thought of having an abortion also made me feel ill and I couldn't bare to get rid of my unborn child. The hardest thing to do was tell my parents but they were so supportive of my decision to keep it. I'm now 22 weeks gone now with my exams coming up.
Only you know what to do, what does you boyfriend say about the situation, it really helps when you have the support of the father aswell.
At the minute you will feel really worried but if you decide to keep your baby everything will get better and fit into place.
I'm lucky because my mam has offered to look after my baby through the day so I can finish next year aswell and get my A Levels but even if this isn't possible you can get the care2learn scheme where you will get free childcare for your baby through the day.
It's a lot for you to take in and I hope this is helped you at least a little bit.

Good luck for whatever you decide to do, I hope your decision is right for you.