im 17, 9 weeks pregnant and wen me n my bf found out i was pregnant things were gr8 but he has been very abusive before and is going back to tht now hes smashing things up and i no wot comes next. i told him im getting rid of baby but he jus sez if u do ill smash the place up so if i keep it im stuck and i dnt dare to think wot will happen if i get rid ? any advise

I know it seems like there is no way out at the min but believe me there are so many support groups or people you can talk to.unfortunatly it seems as if this baby will be stuck in the middle of a very unstable relationship?how old is your partner?has he ever hit you?believe me i was in a very abusive relationship and i got out and im now so in love and expecting our first baby.you are still very young dont let him ruin your life forever.if i can give you one piece of advice it would be remember that if you worried or stressed your baby will be to good luck chick keep smiling there is light at the end of the tunnelxx

i was in the same boat as you at one point. i got rid of the baby for my bf and he was so nasty before hand but after i got rid of the baby that i wanted so much he started to beat me. i have to live with the guilt of killing the baby. i also had him saying i was a baby killer. that happened about 10 years ago and to this it still haunts me.i had the guts to leave him after i got pregnant by him again and i took my son as he started to beat up a 6 week old baby.my advice to you is to keep the baby but get rid of him. now i have met a wonderful man that has giving me evert thing i ever wanted. i have another 2 boys and im pregnant again and both myself and my husband is happy.
if you have your own place you can you to the local houising office and talk to them about it. they might be able to put you in to a mother and baby unit in till they find you some where else.we are due around the same time i think. im due on the 7th of dec. best of luck. if you want to talk about any thing please just ask.

You dont have to get rid of the baby because of him. Let your parents or someone close know whats going on - move out straight away - if he continues to hassle you get a restrainig order - go to the police.
You and your baby are worth more than that. I know its a scary step but its 100 times better than living with him

good Luck
Natalie x

Hey youo don't need to get rid of the baby, you need to get rid of the boyfriend! He puts both you and your baby at risk of many things, including death! If you really want to get rid of the baby, he can't blame you for having a miscarriage just tell him that is what happened. If i were you tho, i would do what was best for me and my baby, leave the abuse!

BUT GET RID OF HIM. DO ANYTHING TO PROTECT YOURSELF & THE BABY. MAYBE YOU ARE EMBARASSED TO SPEAK TO YOUR FAMILY, BUT YOU NEED LOVE 7 SUPPORT. YOU'RE NEVER GOING TO GET IT FROM HIM.
GOOD LUCK LOVE.
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