Sperm test & non ovulation
I was also not ovulating (I only realised this as my periods also stopped, so I went to get that checked out). I was diagnosed with PCOS and told that even though i had (long cycle) periods my whole life, I probably always ovulated irregulatly if at all.
They re-started my periods with something, then I started in a very low dose of clomid, gradually increasing the dose until they could confirm i was ovulating each month (the periods re-established themselves once "kick started" so).
Hubby was also sperm tested - took a week or 2 for results. The only special thing about the sperm test is the sample needs to be 'fresh' when they test it, so they can go 'produce' the sample at the lab (which my husband was not interested in doing!) or you they give you a vial to have it 'produced' at home, and then you need to get it to the lab premises within 2 hours.
After all that I am now 8 month pregnant with a baby girl. This took quite some time, but a few months after confirmed ovulation and lots of sex during, before and after my most fertile time it worked! Took about 2 years from diagnosis to confirmed pregnancy. But couldn't have done it without the gynae.
Don't worry about what your friends are doing - your time will come!
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