Hate my gyne!!!!!

I was impatiently wating for my appointment to infertility clinic for over two months. A week ago I received a letter that my appointment was cancelled and I was given a new appointment to gyne. I never been to one. After waiting one and half hour in the waiting room I was finally seen by the MONSTER lady doctor. She asked me few questions, my husband was with me so she asked few questions of him too. Then she said she will examine me. God. She was rough, cold, and the most ugly and mean person I had seen in long time.
She said that she thinks that I am not ovulating. (Strainge enough my GP said I am.) Apparently in my blod test from November 06 my progesteron level did not show as it should. I told her that was because the test was NOT done on 21 day from period and my GP thought it was good for that particullar day. Also I do get positive ovulation tests every month so I think I do ovulate, but she recalled in really strict maner that NO,YOU ARE NOT OVULATING!!!
So I am going for another blodtests 21 day after period, and some x-ray to check my tubes or something.
I was so scared of her and devastated after the painfull examination, that I stopped listennig to her, just switched off and wondered if I really want this, if I can cope...so I do not know what else they going to try. (if I am to go back!!!)
I do not know

She sounds awful!

Can't you choose to go to someone else? They are not all like that! Some women prefer women doctors, but my personal experience is that I have only had 2 women doctors, one great, one not unlike the one you describe! That was in a different country, her my GP & gynae are both men.

My current gynae is fantastic - he is like a very tall kid, always cheery, always willing to answer questions or explain, very positive - even when he is telling you the hard facts about downs syndrome or other risks, or he is explaining difficult things you always end up feeling like there is a light at then end of the tunnel.

This is what a gynae should be like - if you don't get on with yours - find out your options to move to someone else. You might have to spend a lot of time in discussion with this person, asking difficult questions - I can't imagine how that possibly could be over time with the lady you describe!

Find someone else asap before you waste any more time with her! Good Luck.

Waiting game...

I just received a letter from the clinic. My next appointment to see gyne regarding results from my blood tests and x-ray will be on 12.6. .
I am shocked. I did nok know that every time I will need to see her it will take upto 4 months to get my turn.
I do not know whether to cry or laugh. It souns like a bad joke. Does it mean, that if everything is OK and I will need to go for another tests, I will have to wait another 4 months to see Dr. to find out what next?
No, I do not feel like laughing at all!

Takes the pi*s!!

it is so stupid bout waiting times all i can say is keep goin bk 2 ya doctor with ur questions & concerns that is wat i have done as on friday my doctor said he wud b able 2 move my gyne appointment forward (its in july) but i gota av a period first! x x