Hope
Hi
I have just turned 44 and have a 5 year old daughter. I am desparate for a little brother or sister for my daughter and to make my family complete. I have been trying unscucessfully for 3 years to conceive, during that time had a miscarriage, I was devastated.
Having been given some hope by being put on the fertility drug clomid I was really positive that I would fall pregnant. However, February this year I had a laparoscopy and had been given the impression by the consultant who performed my op that everything flowed through nicely, so again I remained very positive.
However, 3 months later I had my appointment with my own consultant. I had made my mind up that I no longer wished to be on clomid and would give my body a rest for 3 months and I would start acupuncture, another desparate measure. I was devastated to be told that I had a cyst on one side of my tube which was squashing it and the other tube was being tethered by endometriosis.
He also informed me that I had a 1 in 200 chance of conception whilst still taking clomid and only a 2% success with IVF. My only option now is egg donation.
According to the fertility clinic there is a 3 year waiting list, I haven't got that time as the cut off is up to my 45 birthday and my partner feels that he doesn't want to go past the age of 50 himself, May next year so I feel really distraught about the whole situation.
I have been informed that should we be able to find our own donor then we would be put to the top of the list. Our only other option of egg donation would be to go to spain where there is no waiting list.
Would you consider helping me, although your own eggs would not be provided to me personally but they would help someone else in my position, but would put me to the top of the list.
I take it by your message you are wishing for a fee, if this is the case please advise as we do not have a lot of money and would you be prepared to travel to Bristol.
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Hi first of all congratulations to your joy of twin girls. I kind of know how that feels my brother and his wife have twins and they are amazing. Second of all im new to all this and i never realised that there are people out there that really want to help. My husband and i have been trying for a child for the last 19 years, had a few IVF's, also have severe endometrosis, but still no luck at the mo. I have been talking to my consultant and he recommends that the best option for me is to find an egg donar. So here we are at the end of our tether, like everyone else seems like there is no light at the end of the tunnel. So i guess are you still looking to donate, if so pleasecontact me on bubs49@hotmail.co.uk
