Very painful sex! very confused about my position.

My Husband & I have been trying for a Baby for more than 3 or 4 years & have been taking Clomid for about the last 2 years. During Feb 07, they performed a Laparoscopy Op & confirmed I have PCOS. Because of the Very Painful Sex I experience, I assumed they would discover I had Endometriosis or some other health issue, but no.

We were just about to start IUI Treatment but, after having various internal scans, We were told that my follicles were too small We are now waiting to return to see the specialist too see what is the next step.

My periods can range from no bleed for months on end, to a total flood. Sometimes when I get a flood, not even the prescribed pills can stop the blood flow! When this happens, I am absolutely terrified & I can do nothing, but sit ever so still & feel sorry for myself

We have not had intimate times for such a long time now (more than a year or so). Sex is so, so painful for me, I feel like I am being torn. I always bleed a bit afterwards.

The specialist has no idea what is wrong with me or even come up with a solution to my problem. So We go on with no Husband/Wife Sex.

Is there anyone else who is in my position? I don't wish this on anybody, but, it would help if I could talk to someone else in my place.