Donor eggs needed or egg share - north west

Hi

I don't know whether anyone can help, I am 41yrs old and we have been trying for children since I was 24yrs with no success. had 1 attempt at IVF which was not successful. We were told last year that our journey was over but no-one mentioned that we could use donor eggs. We are now going back for treatment and have a surrogate organised in case I cannot carry a child. Our surrogate is a relative and does not want us to use her eggs but is happy to donate to someone else and is 30 yrs old with 2 children, she is 5ft 4" and has brown curly hair and brown eyes.
I am 5ft 9" and have blonde/brown hair and hazel eyes.
Also if anyone is going through the same please reply as I do not know anyone else in this position.

I could help............

I have four children and got steralised after my last child who is eight. My husband then decided to leave us and since then i have met a lovely man and we are both desperate for a child of our own. I have been told i am a ideal candidate for egg share as i already have children but we will need IVf ourselves so we are hoping to be able to share to reduce costs and help others at the same time. Only problem is local clinic cut off age is 35 and i am 37 but if you go in with another couple as their doner it will be ok. Am willing to travel, currently in the midlands. Can anyone help??x