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i admire you so much.
im only 14 weeks, does anyone have any advice for me?
im dead scared but really excited!!
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Ah made a mistake
I mean 25 weekss!!!
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Im a teen mum to be
hiya in 16 and iam 5 months in i am masive and so exsited, personally i realy dont give a .......... , what other peole think.i have got more gut that all then coz i am gunna give up my life for a lil life in side me, what is your littlens name, and have you got any advise you could give me as a teen/younge mum cheers xx
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Hi
I think all you teen mums are brilliant. I am 33 and have 2 small boys. I post quite frequently on the abortion forum, as I am pro-life, and I always urge women who are considering abortion to think again, and connect with their precious children.
It would be great if any of you could take the time to write a word on the abortion forum on sofeminine, as you all are an inspiration for me.
I am troubled that you get nasty glances from older people. This is terrible. We live in such a child un-friendly world. Just know for every evil eye you get, there are other people out there who think ye are really brilliant not to have chosen abortion.
Siobhan
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Teen mums
i was only 19 when i was having my little girl and yes not a day has passed that i havent loved her but sometimes as i was passing my 19 and 20 year birthday i thought should i have waited when my friends were out clubbing now i go out nw she is older and i end up coming home early as i missed my little girl
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Teen mums are just as good as mature mums
Hi
Ive just turned 20 and had my lil girl two months ago, everyone told me and my partner that we should have an abortion as we were to young but we knew we wanted her and not aday has gone by since she has been born that i wish i hadnt had her.
I think you should be so proud of bringing your son up by yourself i admire you alot as i no how hard it can be with two parents.
Kirsty x
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i want to be a mum
Hi im fifteen and i have had alot of experiance with babies.
I would really like to be a mum, i want to have a child of my own, a little person thats mine..
The only problem is that im worried about how my mum n dad would feel and giving birth..!! however your all really possitive so i guess the end ressult is worth it..?? x x
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Hi.
Hi, i'm not a teen mum but most people who were in my class have become teen mothers, I think the youngest was 14 when she had a child. She kept it - like yourself, and found it to be a struggle but it's the best thing she ever did - he's now - 5 this year, and every day gets a little easier.
Don't think you should be ashamed though - this happens, alot, to most girls every day. I do believe that Abortion is wrong - but it depends on the circumstances - or better still I do believe in adoption though!
I hope things go well for you and your little 'un - he should be the most valuable thing in your life - make the most of him whilst he's young, they grow up too quickly! x
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Young mum x
I am going to be a teen mum.
Im 18yrs old and recently found out I was pregnant which was'nt planned although I dont believe in abortions.
I am happy and excited about being pregnant although im scared aswell.
It must be hard for you on your own but its good your mum gives you support.
I am only 5 weeks and scared about eating all the wrong foods and not doing the right things as I would hate to loose him/her.
was you scared in pregnacy?
Leanne-marie x
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A message from us!
Hi, I've just found this forum so I thought I would post
As you can see... it's quite late but being a teen mum, I'm just reading my copy of Taming of the Shrew for an English essay whilst I wait for one of my twins to drop off to sleep - I'm listening to her in the room next door on my baby monitor, it's such a lovely sound.
I'm 18, just doing my A Levels this year in History, Geography and English Lit having achieved 4 A's last year at AS Level (subjects mentioned above and Biology). I've been accepted at Cambridge to study History and I'm taking Annabel and Clara my twin girls with me.
I was 16 when I fell pregnant and had my twins when I was just 17, I come from a strong Christian family (similarly to someone who posted previously) and they were very disappointed when I fell pregnant. I am no longer with the father however he see's the girls regularly and I've made my situation work for me. Whilst far from ideal, my family have accepted Annabel and Clara and I've proven to all my doubters that I can be both a loving mother and good student.
To anyone out there who thinks falling pregnant means the end of their future... it doesn't, please have faith in yourself.
All my love and best wishes,
Sally, Annabel and Clara
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Teen mums
Me and my boufriend have just found out I'm preg and i think we both really scared.
I wanna keep it but my dad is insisting I get rid of it so we both feal presurized. He's saying we are ruining our lives and i just want to talk to some people who are in my situation or have been. Im 16 almost 17 so if anyone can help me out id be very grateful.
thanks
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Hi
hi i just read ur message on so feminine
sorry this is really late and you've prob already decided what to do. but your dad cant make you get rid of your baby, and a baby doesnt ruin lives mothers without motavation ruin lives.
so hopefully you've done what evers best for you.
if you need anyone to tlk to email me kezza_64@hotmail.co.uk
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Hiya aimee
Hi i would just like to say that i got pregnant and just 15! I had my baby when i was 16 and now i just tuned 17 lol. The dad wanted me to get rid of him 1st of all and then told me not to! We are a family now and my son is 8 months old! I think teen mums are better then older mums to tell u the truth. I don't think its fair, That they judge so fast! I don't regrat having my baby! He is a healthy baby boy called damon and i would'nt change him for the world!x
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Hey emma
Hi there, i was reading your comment on the age you became pregnant and i'm sort of in the same situation!
I know you wrote this letter a while back, but i'm only 15 and i found out a few days ago im pregnant.
My mum keeps advising me to get rid of it, but my boyfriend is adiment he will stand by me and i really don't know what to do!! I really want this baby, as i know his family will stand by me. . but is it really ruining my future??
Please Write Back
Nikole x
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Hi aimee!!!!
hi there! im new to this site to! i was preg at 16 and had my lil girl at 17! im now 18 and my lil 1 is just turning 1! she is everything to me! i am with the dad but its still hard. but if u fancy a chat just email
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Stay strong & proud
Hey,
All teen mums are amazing they are where I draw strength from. I fell preg at 16 and had my son not long after I turned 17 he is now just gone one.
I come from a strong christian family so I know what its like to feel ashamed. Well I was preg a constantly felt ashamed of my situation specialy when people gave me dirty looks down the street but I made a promise to my self to never be ashamed of my son and so far im not! he is amazing and hes like the love of my life. Im a solo mum but determined to make it for me and my son.
Stay strong and never be afraid to ask for help when you need it.
take care
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Ur all totally right....
i was 16 when i got pregnant my then partner was 23 and abortion never crossed my mind i now have a beautiful 6mth old daughter who is my world i had her at 17 n im now 18 her dad left me for his ex who he has a 4yr old son with at 7mths pregnant in the most horrible way n this ex says he cant have anything to do with out daughter so hes chose the ex but i dont care as i have my gorge little girl and just so long as your happy and babys happy thats all that counts dont let ANY1 tell you what too do love Jade n Mia-Neve xx
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Teen mom
I'm 16 also, and expecting a baby next month. (at the end of July) My father tried to get me to give up the baby, but it didnt feel right, so i kept it. anyway, just wanted to say hello, and wish you the best of the luck with your little one.. what did you name him by the way?
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Hiya aimee
im a teen mum not a young as you but im 18 and i think we get judged to easily at the end of the day its your choise and no one can make it for you and no one should judge you for whatever u chose to do,i was thinkin of gettin rid but iv recently been for my first scan and seein my baby on their made me realise that im glad i didnt listen to everyone else. and as for disgusting your age doesnt mean you can't be a good mum !!
laura x
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