New && teen mum

Heya.. Some People think teen mums are disgusting.. Im a teen Mum and it has made me grow up more faster as ive become more mature for my age.. My Son is only a few months old and...

Hiya to teen mums

hey i have twins who have just turned 14 weeks, they are a complete handful and i think if i had the choice again i would rather had waited although i love them alot. being a mum teen or not is hard work and stressful and tiring but i think being a teen mum is more starin as you have limited oportunity in life. so any other teen mums want to chat that would be great! i think maybe you should carefully think about the decision your making and that if you realy want your life to soon becoms someone elses.

aimee if your happy with your new life then you made the right decision and dont let anyone tell you different!

bye for now x

Tenn and single

i fell pregnant when i was 17, im 18 now and 28 weeks pregnant.

i must say everyones been great and i havnt yet felt like anyone has looked down on me...although i do feel really concious and worry about wat people might think.
the worst thing is when people ask me if im still with the dad - he left me as soon as he found out i was pregnant, and i havnt heard from him since! (coward) but at least now i no hes true colours, and im glad hes not around making things harder for me.
i cant wait to be a mummy and all my friends are really exited too, and my mum!
at the end of the day as long as you no youve made the right decision u shuldnt care what other people think of you. i no il never regret keepin my baby because it was the right thing for me to do and anyone who disagrees can go to hell

xx

Dont worry

Hey Aimee,
Im 23 and i have 3 children with another due in july.
When i had my first and second daughters i was 16 with two children. I really stuggled but i had to grow up quickly and raise my girls. It is really difficult as you cant really go out with all your friends but at the end of the day you have a beautiful baby boy and its the best thing that could ever happen to a women and so what if you got it a little early! I did have my boyfriend arounf when i had my children but just because your in a relationship doesnt make things any better. He left me 3 months ago at 5 months pregnant for an 18 year old! Stick to your gut and you'll be a brilliant mum!

Lucy xx

I was pregnant at 17

i became pregnant at 17 but i had my little girl when i was 18.im very lucky though my boyfriend of nearly 3 yrs and i are still together.

one of the most harder things is how other people make you feel. been a teen mum is made even harder by the cruel looks and comments from other people.people that dont even know you.

I once got on a bus and after some nasty looks of a group of old ladies one turned to me and asked if i looked after my baby properly.It really hurt did that but now looking back yes im a teen mum but im a bloody good teen and i have great support an help from my boyfrend.

Sometimes people just judge you on the fact you are young with a baby but as though its not hard enough bringing up a baby you don need people to make it any harder for you.

I think your great been 16 and doing it all on your own you should always be proud of yourself i bet no matter what your litle boy wouldnt be without you just as much as you couldnt him

i hope things keep going so well for you it will all sm better if you smile whilst you do it best wishes xxx

Hiya hun,

all i have 2 say on this matter is at least u can look after yer baby! Some people (not kids) but people at a young age sometimes forget there responsibilites as parents cuz there young, but it sounds like yer doing a good job hun! Keep it up and prove all the synics wrong. Good luck x

Teen mommy

Hey Aimee Im a teen mother. My son will be two in december, & Im going to be having another baby.
I agree with you, it's not as bad as everyone thinks it is.
& As hard as it is for you right now, It will get alot better as your baby gets older. My son is really good at listening to me when I tell him no, or ask him to do things & he isn't even 2 yet! it's wonderful. I love my baby boy & Im so glad I had him. If you ever need anythign advice or tips or anything you can ask me!