Having a nightmare!
Hi
I live in Spain and we are quite well integrated into the Spanish community. I am expecting a boy and have found in difficult to choose a name (as we don't want an English name but find some of the Spanish names a little too Spanish!- pepe, paco, Guillermo....
My dad is terminally ill and his name is Rafael (spanish)I like it shortned to Rafa but my husband isn't sure. We have already told my dad if (It)- before we knew the sex- was a boy we would name him Rafa but now we don't know. Advice please!!!
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I love Rafael 
