oh has left me

My oh deceided to inform me in bed this morning at 2.30 that he didnt want another child & that he was leaving me in the morning & going to his mums, we have been trying for a while & he now informs me that he only wants the 1 & it is not going to work as i want 2.
He made this decision after my miscarrige in October but has waited all this time to let me know.
we had a rough patch a few months back when i asked all these questions & he said no, it was work stuff.

i am in a state my dd is with my dad for the week & i managed to hold it together when he collected her this morning, i have shut my self away & have cut all contact with everybody else, i just helped him pack his things, funny thing was it didnt take long to pack away 5 years!

sorry to post on here i needed to write it down to make it sink in!!

em x

thanks for all

your support ladies, we have been out a couple of time this week to talk & he has now said he wants to come back but i am not sure, if he can walk away once... he has given me some time to think & get my head straight, i need some to time think what is best for me & Lottie.

Thanks again

Em xxxxx

really really sorry to hear that!
Not a lot i can say, but just wanted to let you know im thinking of you!

Nat and Megan 9 days old x

So sorry

I'm so sorry to hear your news, I dont really know what to say, i could sit here and slag your OH off but i'm sure you dont want to hear that, maybe there is more to it than wanting another baby, i think you probably need to sit done and discuss it properly, during the day rather than in the middle of the night, i cant believe he hit you with it at 2.30am!!!!! some men eh!

Take care hunny and make sure you eat and look after yourself as you will need all your energy to get you through this difficult time.

Donna and Scarlett 15 months and 20 week boy bean.
xxxxxx

Oh

hun, what is it with these men! how dare he end it all like that!

I really hope your ok, stay strong for your little lady, OH left me when Mia was 5 months old, it was very difficult but now i love our little life, just us two girls!

were all hear for you whenever you need to chat.

hugs

kate & Mia 13 months!

Omg!!

Hope your ok!!

rache x

Oh hun!

Thats awful! But if he can do that to you then you are definately better off without him. I do hope you are ok, it must be such a shock.

Thinking of you XXXXXXXXXXXXXXX

Oh hun

i'm so sorry

i am glad your dad could take dd so you can start to get things together.
it's so wrong that he did things this way! so unfair on you ((((hugs))))

is there a friend you can ask to come around?

we're here for you hun
take care
elizabeth & siri
xxxx

Oh hon

so sorry to hear that. Can't believe he just landed that on you, you must be in shock. Is there any chance that when things calm down a bit that you can discuss it? I know there's no compromise in this situation, one of you will end up not getting what you want so it's so hard.
I hope that whatever happens that the pain eases quickly. I don't really know what else to say, remember we're here for chats anytime. Don't cut yourself off, is there anywhere you can go and stay to get out of the house and not be alone?

sending big hug Rach x x x