Tmi, really really sorry

hi ladies,

i'm really sorry for this post and i'm very embarrassed but your the only people i feel i can ask for advice!
i had jacob 4 mths ago now and everything seems to be back to normal except when i go the toilet for a number 2 (i'm really sorry) it hurt and stings and when i wipe there is bright red blood it only hurts when i go the toilet and it doesn't hurt when i sit down, has anybody else had this? i have been using a cream for that area but it doesn't seem to be making any difference. i get myself so stressed when i need to go the toilet!!
i'm really sorry again for this post, i'm so embarrassed but like i said if there is anyone i can ask it's you ladies

love+hugs

nicki+jacob. xxx

Thank you

thank you ladies for replying, i've been out today and bought a different cream, lets just hope this one works!
i knew you would give me some good advice, it's good to know i'm not alone

love+hugs

nicki. xxxx

Exactly the same...

Hi hun,

I have exactly the same, afraid to say it sounds like you also have piles! I thought I'd gotten away with it as they didn't seem to appear until a few weeks after I had Thomas, but maybe it was because it was all a bit sore down there anyway, and I only noticed when the stitches had gone, etc. I just mentioned it to the doctor at my 6 week check, and she gave me some cream to apply twice a day, and it doesn't hurt nearly as much when I go to the toilet now.....

Hope i've helped a little!

Debra and 9 week 4 day old Thomas xxxx

Me too

hey hun

Im the same, have bad piles since having Abigail n its soooo painful. Its getting better now though as use my cream and eating alot better so passing alot easier ha ha ha its an awful thing to have coz u darent go n poop!!! coz of the pain. Mines like nails coming out of my bum ha ha sorry def tmi there.

Hope it gets better hun.

Us ladies def know how u feel

love keira xxxxxx

Hi

This happened to me for a while after my first baby, stung for months but as for blood it would be a small amount literally a couple of spots of fresh blood no more. If its more than that i'd mention to gp or health visitor as you may not be healing, did you have a tear or stitches?
kerry, frankie 15months and vinnie bump 30 wks xxxx

hi

yeah i di have stiches but not in that area it was higher up, its more than a few spots of blood it was was gettin better for a bit but now its got bad again.

xxx

it sounds like piles? if u go to ur GP they will give u some cream for it. I think its common after having a baby.

Lucy & Rosie (5wks + 1 day) xxx