Can i have your opinion please?
Hey girls,
Ive been feeling so stressed out lately, My oh has sickle cell and he had another crisis a few weeks ago and was in hospital for a week and managed to get a lung infection while he was there, and he hasnt been the same since. His back is always sore and i feel bad to ask him to even make a bottle incase it starts of another crisis. It sound silly i know but im getting so frustrated because everytime i ask him to do something for me he starts going on about how hes not well and his back is sore and this and that but when someone from his family i.e mum or brother ask him to do something he does it no questions asked! Is it just me or would any of you get annoyed about this?
For example today his brother asked him to take his car to some place to get his radio fitted, so oh has gone, driving all the way to his mums, to leave his car, take his brothers car to the place then walk back to his to pick up his car and drive back here! But when i ask him to get up and make a bottle or to make dinner, suddenly his back is sore or something? Im not sayin hes making it up but its just a bit odd that when its what i want he cant do it! why is this? So now im left here with a toddler that ignores my every word and a 4 month old baby whi is teething! I havent even been feeling very well lately my chest is playing up again and ive been getting really bad migraines, a few weeks ago the doctor said she thinks ive got a bit of pn depression and yet im left to just do everything on my own. When we talked about us having a baby i thought he would be there for me alot more. But to be honest i feel like a single mum sometimes.
sorry to moan so much!
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