I'm so angry!!!! need some quick advice!!

Hi ladies making it quick
Daisys friend Chloe came over after pre-school for tea. Her mum said she'd pick her up at 5.15. It's now 8.15 and Chloe is still here!!! Her mum gave me two contact numbers, her mobile - which is switched off, and her house number which just rings and rings. I've tried them both continuously for ages but I'm not getting through.
She's running riot in my house, being really naughty, she won't listen to me. She is just screaming and shouting! Daisy, who is normally really good, is copying her!! It was Daisys bedtime at 8 and theres no chance I could get her to bed now as she's really hyper.
I don't know what to do??? My brain is mush at the mo. I'm really tired, have been throwing up most the day. I wasn't going to say yes when Daisy asked if she come round but I felt sorry for her as she hasn't had a friend round in ages. I just want a hot bath and bed! I'm worn out

Liam is trying to watch them now while I type this and have a break, we haven't had tea yet and I'm absolutly exhausted!
When I get hold of her mother I am actually going to commit murder. I am so so mad. What if Chloe had an accident? What would I do?!

is there a way we could get her address through the house number she gave us?
Please help ladies what do I do???


Thanks in advance and sorry for putting it on you lot

Kirsty, Daisy (3) 37+3 yellow bump and horrible devil child Chloe


xxxxxxx

Hi

i havnt been online for a while and i cant get on FB but i just HAD to reply to this post....

It gets me so mad hearing about parents like this!!! How old is she? It fumes me that so many people look at young mums with disgust as if we are the bad parents! I got pregnant with J at 17 (had her at 18, but people think i look younger so i got so many disgusted looks from people) and i have never ever "forgotten" about her! That is so terrible, My child is very well behaved (throws a wobbly now and then but dont they all ) and NEVER in a million years would she behave like that in my own house let alone someone elses! She is very tidy... so tidy i worry sometimes

No wonder the poor child behaves that way if all is true about the mother.... Im not with J's dad, he was violent, took drugs (i am not ashamed to admit it) but i got rid of that waste of space and concentrated on being a good mother for my child, and i am very proud of that.

It is shocking that you can leave your child for that long without even a phone call, if someone was looking after any of my children i would be ringing to check on them and if i was going to be late i would most certainly call! (not that i would be 4 HOURS late!!!) and if i heard my child was behaving so badly i would be there straight away to collect her, especially as your heavily pregnant, infact i wouldnt even expect a heavyliy pregnant woman to take care of my child when she has her own to deal with.

I am in shock, i just read the post out to my OH and even he said that is not right....

Its true what i read on another post, good thing you found out what they were like before daisy got too involved with them and before she went to there house! if the rumours are true then god know what she could have come across there!!!

Just look at it as a good thing, you found out before it was too late.

I know i would of gone mad a the woman if it was me!!!!

Hope your all ok now..... dont go rushing to look after anyones kids again...

xxx

how irresponsible!!!!

Hiya,
Oh my god! Can't believe that, was thinkin bout it til I went 2 bed last nite!!!
As if u just 4get ur own child! People like this really do need a reality check! That child is probably use 2 this kinda behaviour frm her so called mum!
Like the others say, u have alot on ur plate at present n unless u feel u have 2, I would leave the SS side of it 4 now, just keep a wide berth n maybe mention the situation 2 pre-school if anyone.
Wot a cheek! I was thinkin she had had an accident or sumert!!!! From wot u say others have heard bout her, the excuse she gave u could all b a big lie!?
Glad u sorted it eventually. I would have rung the police at 10pm if she hadn't have cum.
Silly n inresponsible. Its scary how sum people choose 2 bring up their kids.
Take care hun n thanx 4 the update!
mummyand2.x

Oh my god!

Shocking behaviour! It's sad really that there are people like this in the world who unfortunately are producing little brats, now wonder she is the wya she is if that is her role model.

I bet Chloe won't be coming for tea again...give them a very wide berth. It's a good thing that you've found out what she's like before Daisy ever went and spent time at her house.

Hope things are a bit calmer and chilled tonight, you need your rest xxx

Hey

sorry, on the run but a quick note - how bloody rude and damned inconsiderate, specially considering your condition (and I guess now you have a new LO seeing your FB post!!!!) - you have enough on your plate at the moment so I would not go any further with SS, if this woman has a drug problem dont get involved - but do not look after her daughter again...............

Hope you are okay hunny!!!

Lots of Love
Natalie and Emily xxxxxxxxxx

Morning girls

For those of you that don't have me on facebook, here's what happened -
I asked Chloe if she knew her address because Daisy knows hers apart from her postcode, but she didn't know. She wasn't bothered in the slightest that her mummy hadn't collected her. Which I thought was a bit strange as Daisy would of been sobbing her eyes out if I'd of left her that long! After talking to another Sofem member about the situation, we decided that the story was a little bit strange, as in it didn't add up.

Think about it, if you were away from your child, you would keep your phone on right? Hers was off from half past 5 until 8.45pm. Then when I tried again, it suddenly rang, which means it can't of run out of battery, and if she had no signal, surely when she saw all the missed calls she would ring back straight away rather than wait for me to call
I spoke to her on the phone and she said "oh I'm sorry, my friend lost her mum this morning and rang me after school in bits so I went up to console her, I lost track of time, sorry"


Sorry but how the hell do you lose track of 3 hours when you have a 3 year old daughter to pick up?? I do feel very sorry for her friend losing her mum but that is no excuse to forget you have a daughter.
A few mums at school have said she is bad news... Her ex ( Chloes dad) is an alcoholic and she has done time for theft. Oh and rumour has it, she is a heroin addict!!
Well I was absolutly fuming!! Her daughter run riot in my house, she swore at me, calling me a fkn fat cow infront of Daisy!! She has drawn all over my wall behind my sofa with black felt tip, there is pen on my leather sofa, she smacked Daisy and made her cry!!! she broke the oven door off Daisys kitchen set!!
I think I'm going to ring social services... What do you think? Or is it abit over the top? I think it disgusting how she can just leave her like that for 4 hours ( she arrived to finally pick her up at 9.30 pm )
It took me until 1 this morning to finally settle Daisy down and get her to sleep as she was so hyped up from =that devil child! I'm so mad!! I could of smacked her one. Infact Liam had to go deal with it when she arrived as I think I could of murdered her!!

Thanks ladies
Loves ya all xxxx

Omg!!!

What kind of excuse was that?! Makes me even wonder if that's the truth!!!

Poor Chloe! I'm not surprised she is a little madam with a mum like that.
Have you decided what you're going to do regarding S S?! I have a friend who works for them and would be quite happy to mention what you have said to her....see what she advises!
Rumours are sometimes just that....but you can't be to careful! Someone has to look out for this little girl.
Do you know if this has happened before at any other friends houses she has gone to play at?!

Hope you have been able to mend Daisy's kitchen & remove the felt tip pen!!!

Summerlee
xXx

What happened?!

Hi Kirst, only just logged on.
Hope things are much calmer now!
What was the outcome...what happened to her mum?!
Summerlee
xXx

Oh no... maybe she was either on way to pick her up whilst u were typing this or she has had an accident like the other ladies have said.

Has she turnt up yet?

Lucy x

Oh i just read your facebook, how silly of the mum not to let you know or let alone loose track of time!!!

hope u get ur well earned bath and a nice sleep!

xx

Has she returned?...

Has her mum turned up yet?
So hope so 4 all ur sakes.
Take care n pls post when u get chance 2 say alls well.
mummyand2. xx

Hey

Im not too sure about tht, but you cud try ringing the non emergency plocie helpline, something might have happened?
They might be able to give u an address?
Altho ringign the police seems a bit dramatic lol i dnt knw wot else to suggest.
Hope she comes soon
x

Oh dear,
Thats all u need!
Du think this is just the way she is n shes gone out or sumert or do u think she could have had an accident herself?
Strange really as they r still young at that age so u wud'v thought she'd have been early if anything?!
Not sure how u could get hold of her really. Send a text so that u get a delivery report when the fones turned on or gets signal again, at least then u can ring straight as it gets there!
Its very cheeky n selfish if she is just not collectin her 4 no reason! Like u say what wud u do if she turned ill or hada accident.
Not sure if u can get an address from anyone through number. I would go knockin on all doors of street she lives on if I knew at least that!!!!
My 4 yr old knows her address, have u asked Chloe?
Hope u get it sorted soon n she collects her daughter.
mummyand2. xx

Oh hun

has she arrived yet? I hope she hasn't had an accident, but where could she be

Have you quizzed Chloe, it's amazing what little ones will come out with, maybe her mum has done this before with other friends?

Hope you get a rest soon & get some food down you for your bump xxx