Im 16 and have had a beautiful 7 day old girl called eliza im very happy except for my bestfreind and elizas dad is now presurin me for more of 'it' every second now he thinks like a boyfrined not a bestfriend, BUT ONLY IN FRONT OF HIS MATES, i dont no how to be a student and a parent and worker.help plese ps godd luck to any teen or any pregnat women i know its hard

Im not a mom but my brothers girlfriend is pregnant.My advice to you is to get a day baby sitter and try as hard as you can in school. I suggest you get a baby swing to keep your little baby girl entertained while you do your studies.i hope this helps if not im sorry but GOod luck and i wish you the best

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i was pregnant at 17 and had my son at 18. my partner and i were both in the forces and he never helped with any thing. when i went on tour i havd to give my son to my mam as he would not look after his child. tell him what you want in front of his mates and make him feel small so he knows what it is like, take carex

I AM ALSO A YOUNG MOTHER! I GOT PREGNANT WHEN I WAS 18 AND HAD MY FIRST SON WHEN I WAS 19. I AM ALSO IN THE MILITARY, AND MARRIED. ALL OF THESE THREE THINGS HAPPENED WITH IN A YEAR AND A HALF, SO I HAD TO LEARN HOW TO HANDLE THEM ALL. IT HELPED ME TO GET MY BABY ON A SCHEDULE. I WORK SHIFT WORK SO IT WAS A LITTLE HARD BUT I WROTE DOWN WHAT I WANTED TO DO AND THEN I STUCK TO IT. IT WAS ALSO HARD LEARNING TO LIVE WITH MY HUSBAND WHO ISNT ANY OLDER THAN I AM. WE BOTH HAD TO MATURE TOGETHER AND LEARN HOW TO WORK TOGETHER AND TAKE CARE OF OUR CHILD. WHEN MY SON WAS 3 MONTHS OLD I GOT PREGNANT WITH MY SECOND SON. IT WAS CRAZY I WAS EXAUSTED, WHICH WAS CAUSING FRICKSION BETWEEN ME AND MY HUSBAND. BUT SOMETIMES YOU HAVE TO IGNORE SOME THINGS AND KEEP ON GOING AND JUST WORRY ABOUT THE IMPORTANT THINGS LIKE YOUR DAUGHTER. MAKE SURE SHE HAS EVERYTHING SHE NEEDS. MAKE SURE YOUR BOYFRIEND HELPS YOU OUT AND IS THERE FOR YOU AND YOUR CHILD. IF HE JUST HAS ONE THING IN MIND OR IF HE ISNT WILLING TO HELP THEN YOU CAN DO IT WITH OUT HIM. YOU JUST HAVE TO REMEMBER TO STAY STRONG AND DO WHAT IS RIGHT FOR YOUR CHILD, AND YOUR SELF, EVEN IF IT IS NOT ALWAYS WHAT YOU WANT TO DO!

Hi i have just read your message on the board, i think that you should just tell him what you think and forget bout his mates and stuff! i know your only 16 and i was only 17 when i fell pregnant with my son calum, it is hard to fix everythin around, but you jut try your best thats all you can do! Tell you boyfriend or bestfriend to stop presurin you cause you just had a little one and your concentration mainly needs to be with her right now! Any way chick i hope this helps if not i know where to go lol!