"Pregnant for the 4th time and worried..." Posted by jade20071 16 May at 06:26
my last period was on the 2oth march and only lasted 3 days, last friday night i took a home pregnancy test and it came up positive straight away i was excited but thought i would wait till the morning and do another one. i woke up the next morning and took another one and i got the same positive result,i then took another test yesterday which was 3 days later and it was also positive, the reason i am scared is because last november i fell pregnant and had a miscarriage but the docter at the hospital told me i was still pregnant after spending seven hours in emergency, the only reason i found out that i had a miscarriage was when i went for a ultrasound and the man couldnt find anything he even did an enternal ultrasound, when i took the report to a docter he told me that the egg had got stuck in my tubes and that is what caused the miscarriage.. i am so worried that i will loose this baby too and me and my partner really want this pregnancy to go well..i also have a 4 year old son and had no troubles with his pregnancy ecept that he was born one month early but was fine.. Worried
Firstly I am totally amazed no-one has relplied to you. I have no personal experiences but my Aunty had 6..(count them).6! miscarriges and then 2 lovely boys...worry isn;t something you can just swith off , but it will do you and the baby no good.. see ......now you are worrying about worrying too much..right? Listen to mumzie.. stop..thats the word.."stop" train your brain.. anyone can do it..what will be will be..that is your mantra..this means whenever a worry comes bubbling into your brain you SHOUT "STOP" honestly ..its a brain trick..and you mustn't be fooled anymore after a whil you won't need to do it..so for now..trust me....ok maybe not shouting out loud in public (but you CAN shout in your brain anyway) ..and "what will be will be"...set your alarm and repeat this every hour..and download , beg, steal or borrow the song Que sera sera ..make it "your song" and play it loud... And if the baby doesn't cook properly..it wasn't meant to be...you are a strong woman..you dealt with a premature baby..your time will come , this time or later..what will be will be... huge humble hugs H