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Posted by everythingissomething 13 December  at  06:10

I'm 15 and just found out I'm 8 weeks pregnant. My boyfriend is supportive but I do not want to stay with him. My mother has an abortion appointment sceduled for tommorow morning even though it is what I am against. She says it will wreck my body and that it would kill her but I can't help but want to run away. It would be hard, raising a child alone, and what of them growing up? I just can't bear the thought of tommorow. I don't know what to do and am told that abortion is the best route right now for a better life but I still can't fight off wanting this baby. I do not want to regret my compliance to my mothers wishes when I am older. I don't know what to do or who to listen to.
 
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Posted by crimsonxflowingxemo 13 December at 19:44

well i'm 14 and in my opinion you need to either sit down with your mother and tell her straight out you don't want to because you want this baby so much, or you let her make your choices for you and you have the abortion. she's probably just worried for you. but firstly weigh up the good and bad stuff about a baby, example: your 15 and probably still in school, you might want to get a good job when you're older but can't because you have a baby to look after, and your mother might not want to look after it, and just imagine all the screaming at 2am. but think about you sitting in the lounge with your child playing peek-a-boo and making them laugh so hard. you're still very young and have many choices, i have no idea what your going through but i can only empasis, you should also perhaps talk to a doctor or someone you know you can trust for their opinion.
i hope that whatever you do will be ok, if you keep your baby then good luck and best wishes. but if you dont then im sorry but hey! your still young and when your older and have a secure job you could start to make a baby again.
best of luck xxx




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