hi, im 16 n engaged. me and my fiance (who is 20) would love to try for a baby but i have some worries, like what my parents n family would, if we'll be able to afford it, am i rushing things etc i just need some advice, someone please help!
Many thanks,
Sarah.

Make sure ur ready for a baby their a full time responsibility...if you really want it then go for it no one can stop you...but if you're still having doubts wait a year or two until you know for sure that you will be able to support a child

I agree with Maddie- dont rush into things hunny!

Life is a precious thing, you need to have your youth & do things that other normal teenagers do. A child is a big responsibility and isnt a decision that should be made without careful thought and consideration.

I am speaking from experience here. I was 17 when I first fell pregnant, the baby was not planned. I also had another baby in May of this year, so I have 2 children under the age of 2. It is hard work hunny, I have the kids' dad here to support me, but being a mummy is still hard work. You have to provide everything for your child, and give them your full attention. That can put a strain on your relationship with your partner as they suddenly wont have you all to themselves.

You should talk to your partner and explain that you are not ready yet, that is if you dont think you are. Under no circumstances should your partner put pressure on you to get pregnant. If he does then you should question whether you want to spend your life with someone who tells you what to do!

hi having a baby is stressfull for the first week but thing sget much better.i think you should tell your parents you would like a baby 1st before you get pregnant so you dont get stressed and see how they take it.then you could consider wen u get married and then after you get married have the baby good luck hope i helped xxx

I think if your not already pregnant then don't rush to be a mom.I became a mom at the age 16 and it has been really hard.I got pregnant with my daughter when I was 15 and she was born 2 days after my 16th birthday.Now I am pregnant again and my son is due november 12.I love my daughter more than anything and my son too but I wish I could of had the choice to wait.(since my daughter wasn't planned).I never really had a chance to be a teenager and I feel like I missed out on an important time of my life.I know you might think you are your boyfriend are in love and could handle a baby but remember your only 16!

Don't You Want To Live Your Life To The Full?
I Mean To Be Honest I Think Your Mad To Get Engaged At 16 But Thats Your Choice,
I Think Having A Baby Now Is Not A Good Idea,
Go Out! Enjoy Yourself!
And If This Fiancee Of Yours Tries To Persuade You To Try For A Baby When You Don't Want To, Then Is He Really Worth It?
Hey I Don't Even Know You So I Might Be Chatting Bubbles Here But I Thought I Might Tell You What I Thought!
Take It Or Leave It
Good Luck
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