hey im also 16 and have just found out i am pregnant. my parents are difficult people 2 talk 2 as they think i am still a little girl although sometimes i feel i am more mature than them. i know it was a while ago since u posted ur comment but i was wonderin if u did tel ur mum n how she reacted. me n my bf think it could be ok i just dont know. xx

I dont know how i am going to tell my family that i am pregnant. my mom is the type of person that is really scary when she is mad and she will try to make me get an abortion even though she cant and i am lso totally against that. my boyfriends family will be a lot easier to tell but i just really need some advice about how to tell my family.

me nd ma partner hav been goin out 4 2 years nxt month. i think im pregnant my period was 3 days late last month and i am a week late this month. my period is neva l8. i hav taken about 4 pregnancy tests nd all showd up negitave. i am gettin all tha simtoms of pregnancy, e.g. nausea, tenderness in breasts, tirdness and also urinatin alot.

i dont know if this is normal, my partner z he thinks i am from last month but i dont know wht to think im so confused at the minute im actually angry becuz i wanna no if i am or not

i am goin to wait and c if my period is 2 weeks l8 then take another test if it shows up negative i will contact my doctor asap.

i am 16 ans ... scaed of tellin my parents they are very strict and wud kill me .. is any1 in the same boat as me

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u got to tell ur parents thats really big!!!!!

Right, this is what i did when i found out i was pregnant. I wrote a letter to my parents explainin everything and then the nest day i came home from school before my mum came home and took my things to my grandmas n left the letter in the letterbox so she would find it. I went to my grandmas until she had calmed down enough for me to come home.

i know how u feal i had to tell my mum but everything was ok so dont worry everything will be fine

You should tell your family and your mom they might get mad and tell you to get a abortion and they might not get mad but you should always do what your heart tell you to do.

If you dont know what to do you sould ask your best friend or the baby dad and if i was your friend i would tell you to do what your heart tell you to do and i would tell you dont to get a abtorion because you might want she or hem in the end.

If you thank it might be to hard to have a baby but you what hem or her you should just ask your boyfriend to halp you with it all if he loves you will love is baby to so i thank he would halp you with it all.

PS. all remember to listen to your heart and do what your heart tell you and tipe back soon my e-mill is big_daddys_lover_123@yahoo.com and i hope you and your boyfriend do good and your baby if you want to keep it.

OH GOSH!! DIS IZ SOM TIN REALLY SERIOUS! I MEAN SUPA SERIOUS! how about jus having a private discussion at any time u 2 r alone~!@#$~!@#$~!@#$~!@#$~!@#$ ~!@#$

i was 17 and i was a chicken i phoned her to tell her she put the phone down on me but she phone me back 2mins later to say that she was my mum and would be there for me.

hi,im 18 and im now 7 and a half months pregnant.i was really scared about telling my family the words where on the tip of my tongue but they wouldnt come out.i decided to get my mum on her own and tell her first,i txt her in the day and said i needed to talk to her on the night.when i met her i got upset and just blurted it all out,i told her that the condom broke and explained that my boyfriend was willing to stick by me.she was very shocked at first and she told my dad for me and he was a bit upset but everythings ok now and they are all really exited my mum is going out and buying lots of cute baby things. it will probaly be a big shock to all your family at the start because of your age but you may be surprised of the outcome of things.or if you feel you cant tell your mum straight away maybe you could talk to another family member like an aunty or an older sister if you have one. Good luck with things and hope everything turns out ok.

My mom is The exact same and im in the same place you are, my bf's parents are going to be so easy to tell but my mom no way i dotn even want to tell her

hey im also 16 and have just found out i am pregnant. my parents are difficult people 2 talk 2 as they think i am still a little girl although sometimes i feel i am more mature than them. i know it was a while ago since u posted ur comment but i was wonderin if u did tel ur mum n how she reacted. me n my bf think it could be ok i just dont know. xx

girl i know what you are going through is hard but its better to go ahead and get it over with... i dissappointed my mom at you age(i moved in with a boy)she will come around because no mater what you are HER BABY and she may not love your news but as mad as she may be she does love you...and about the abortion thing i'm totally on your side about that just explain to her your feelings about abortion and the simple fact that it is murder..i also suggest writing letters leave them somewhere personal where she can find them.
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Megan
ps let me know how things are going

I can imagine how hard it must be for you, but you know it has to be done. You have to tell your family. Once this is done, and only then, you can start to think about what you want to do about your situation. Right now I'm guessing you can't think straight about anything except about how you are gonna get past the step of telling them. As someone else has said, just take a deep breath and say it. Sure, your mom will react - she might shout and scream, or she may cry, or she may just surprise you and be strong. Whatever her first reaction it won't be her final one. She will need a bit of time to come to terms with it, but she loves you and just wants the best for you. She will help you. You can't handle this alone, whatever happens. One thing I can guarantee - the fear and worry of telling her is FAR worse than actually doing it, whatever her reaction turns out to be, so go do it now.

hey im seventeen and im currently studying for an education, however i fell pregnant this was not planned, and would totally mess my future plans u have to be totally ure u want to do this a baby will be your life for the next eighteen years at least if however u and ur bf want it there would be money issues skl issues and so much more and how would ur parents react but at the end of the day they are ur parents and when u do have a child would u b mad at them?
if u cant console with ur loved ones i suggest counselling.

well first avoll say mom can we talk and then say mom i have something to tell you and then just take a deep breath a nd let it go and just say it.

Girl I would'nt be able to tell my mom but I think Im pregnent doe.. Cuz ma period only lasted fa only 2 days and im supposed ta stay on more days than that..

i mean i know its ard but i mean do u want the baby? i know were u r coming from im the same age as u an me an my boyfriend r planning on having a baby but the thing is how r we goin to tell my family? well i just wish u good luck an if u want to have the baby then go for it i mean its ur body an u can do what ever u want to do k!

hya i think ur really lucky i want a baby so badly but my bf think its a bad idea

I am 17 years old, and I have been with my boyfriend for a year next month. When i was 16 years old, I had an abortion at almost 8 weeks of being pregnant, and my parents found out about it eventually. My mom is a really stressed out mean person most of the time. Her and I dont get along much. I dont live at home anymore, I am at a school where I did get my GED and now im working to get a certification in Medical Office Technology. My family is of catholic religion, but I did have an abortion before. I think I might be pregnant again with my boyfriend now, and I dont think I want another abortion. I have no clue how I am going to tell my parents and family. My family would be the only thing that is holding me back from having this baby if I am pregnant. I am 5 days late of my period and my boyfriend and I did have unprotected sex. We did the "pull-out" method. I will be 18 in May and my boyfriend will be 19 in September. I dont know what to do, I am so scared of my parents and my older brothers, especially since I am the YOUNGEST child!!!!! My boyfriend and I are sooo in love, we kind of had it coming, but I just dont know what to do I actually am! I will take a at home test today, what do i do if it comes up positive?!!!!!

hi i'am 13 i dont got any children my mother iz also a type tht iz scary when she iz mad but the best thing to do iz to tell ur parentz because they will help you out ...
also if ur boyfriend realy carez about u and the baby he will tell u 2 move in wit him .please dont go 4 a abortion cuz tht iz killing ur baby .. . i hope u and ur baby the best GOOD LUCK TALKING WIT UR PARENTS ...

Hi Beba758, i hope i dont sound too rude but i think you should keep your judgemental remarks to yourself. Especially if you dont have any children and have never had to face the decission. Things arnt as black and white as you make them out to be.

Everyone; I am 21 and have fallen pregnant accidentally. I am considering an abortion (i hate that word) and have to make a decission very soon. In my situation I think it would be best for all concerend including the "child" not to go ahead with the pregnancy. But im having a hard time dealing with the thought of terminating (i hate that word too) Im not asking for someones decission but wondering if anybody here has been in a similar position and I would love to here what you have done to get around it?

If i dont go ahead with it, i dont want to tell my parants. not yet anyway