hey im 15 and i love to have a baby but i am scared i want a child because i need someone to love me and i want a child to care for i grow up all my life on my own half of of the time i know what it feel like to have a child waking up in the middle of the night i watch kids babies and i love it. i thought i was pregnant i was scared but i was happy to i just started high school. i was on the patch but i stop using them because thing was happening to me i had my period for 3 weeks!!! should i wait or give it a try my mother is my bestfriend i told ever thing she want me to wait i said 19 is time i want a child and not be scared ill be finsih with school and all my friends is supporting me they said they wil be here all the way and they wont change!!!

This thread is totally sicking really it is!I WANT THIS I WANT THAT ME ME ME ME!!!!!!

YOU YOU YOU YOU! Its all about you if you have read what you wrote! When your a parent you cant think of you! You will be stuck in poverty all your life! These are typical childs dreams of being a mother some day but believe me the novelty wears off and theres times when you really feel alone coz your other friends are out! I used to feel like i was unloved too! Its natural most girls feel that and its an immature thought! Not being mean but it is! Its part of puberty love! A baby doesnt ask for this so please wait till your an adult and can be a proper parent n not one that has a baby to make yourself feel better thats just silly! I say this as i have been there and i know! You will one day stand in my shoes and say to yourself !
You shouldnt be having sex yet! You look at the trouble with kids nowadays and look at their parents i can tell you the tennagers which are going round making trouble in this country come from teenage parents as they didnt have enough knowledge and busy trying to have their teenage lives with small children! The older parents have the children who are better behaved and get more out of life because the parents have experienced more and know what they are talking about!
You go round and ask as many parents as you can and you will find 99.9% will agree with me! And again if you are screwing your face up and thinking i dont know what im talking about then you've answered the question for yourself that you are too immature to have a child as you are a typical teenager who thinks all adults are on their case! Yes i was 15 too 15 years ago and the coockiest git going! We've all been there! Im sure in 15 years you will be on here telling some other teenager the same thinking OMG what is this world coming to!!!!

my god u are a child wanting a child!!!! get a doll

i dnt lik dollz there way different 4rm having a baby 2 kall ur own
ya kno

Ok girls, I'm in the same position as most of you. I really want a baby aswell and I'm only 15, but I can see why not.
Before you set your mind to something BIG like this you should weigh up the pro's and con's.
Its good to have a baby because they are lovley, sweet, cute, La La La.
Its not good to have a baby because you miss out on your childhood, no fun, alone, La La La.
Its up to you guys.
To the people who have had babies at a young age I say congratulations to you! Well done for having a baby, I know how hard it can be, how you feel. [Big family & friends with babies].
To those who want babies WAIT! unless your entilery certain that you want a baby and you can support you and the baby.
Remember; they dont stay cute for long!

my friend got pregnant at the age of 14 and had a little girl at the age of 15 and it was so hard for her and she lost most of her time to have fun now all her time is spend with her daughter she has no time to just hang with her friends and all ur friends told u that they wont change but they will they will feel werid about asking u to do things and wanting to hang out with you i think ur mom is right you should wait til ur 19 i am 19 and i have no desire to wreck my life with a child i want to enjoy the goods things while i still can From HEATHER A OF HAMPTON NEW HAMPSHIRE OF THE USA

i cant believe it ur my age n ya want a baby just like me at lest ur mum knows i wouldnt dare tell my mum how i felt lol she would kill me hope we can chat lv nat xx

Hey......I know you want a babi rite now but its not what it seems....I know u know wht it feels like to hav to take care of babies n everything only one thing.....there not ur babies so u can gve them bac....its a whole different game whn there urs.....trust me Im 15 n hav a son...I wantd hm so I have to take care of him....just do me a favor n think about it a little more I dnt want u to end up like me.....

Hey,
Hi there qay22...
I understand where you're coming from. I went through a similar stage once... I watched my baby cousin run about at Christmas and I just ached for my own. But you need to think of all the responsibilites that having a baby includes. In your head I bet you're thinking about a beautiful baby in your arms, taking them to school - but you don't need to go so fast! You have your whole live infront of you. There is no reason why you can't wait a while and do it with the one you love. This baby isn't just going stay a baby forever - and it isn't also going to dissapear as soon as you're bored with. They're there forever. Think about it, when you're nineteen and all your friends are going out and having a good time at clubs and with boys, you will be sitting in your house with a four year old running about ruining your house. Even now, if you were to have a baby right now you'll be stuck with dirty nappies to deal with.
Well, I hope you make the right decision; please don't bombard your life with another life ( a major responsability )when you're only 15.
Good luck.

I know that this is probably excatly what everyone else is telling you, but im sorry you need to wait.I am way younger than you and am baby crazy to. But your to young. At least wait until after high school. You need to be older than 15. Imagine you being only 15 years older than your son or daughter, that is actually kind of creepy. And you need to make sure you have a loving partner who is also capable of these responsibilites. Take my advice. Bye.

i reli want a baby too, im 18, been wiv my bf for 3 yrs in summer, been ingaged for 3 yrs this nov, i have my own house now, a dog, and im studying to be an art teacher, im also working. i feel like im ready, i reli want one but my house aint finished, so im worried that if i were to get pregnant now i would end up regretting it.. im a sensible person so i always analyse my situation, so atm im like 98% sure i want one now... thing is.. i got this condition called polysistic ovaries which means my periods arnt regular, so if i want a kid, i need pills to help me, so i cant get pregnant by accident, i just dont want to make a mistake and regret it.. me n my partner talk openly about everything, but he thinks we should wait for a lil bit, i need some experienced advice ppl?! plz help.... give me ur ideas/thoughts..

my name is Dina and im 14 years old.
last year my best friend was pregant but she had an abortion and ive seen how it has ruined her life in so many ways!
one of my friends at school is pregant and shes 15.
a part of me really wants a baby of my own so that i could prove all my friends wrong that i could be a great mum...
me and my mum are very close and i tell her everything.
im a virgin and i would like it to stay that way until meet the right person but i know ( and its obvious) you can only get pregnant through having sexso im a bit stuck.
should i put a child or my self respect and dignity first?

I suggest you get a puppy..no seriously, honestly , it needs your love, cleaning up-after, it needs training, it needs commitment , and that little thing will love you and bite you,and sh*t on the carpet and scratch your furniture and if when you are 19 you still want a baby and you haven't given up on the dog...maybe.
A baby is a squishy dream you have, babies grow up,into horrible tantrum filled toddlers and when it screams in your face , hits you , answers you back with utter contempt, and screams no when you want it to do something then says it hates you, ...will you give it up for another little life that doesn't answer-back? you might, because your idea of a baby is all wrong and totally dream-land. Take it from a Mum, its the hardest job I have ever done and I was a very grown up 28 year old with a husband to help me..you mum is right , listen to her..please please please
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Totally agree mumzie! It honestly makes me feel sick the thought people so young want babies! Im really scared for them! But then they screw up there faces answering back just as a small child would do so it shows they are not grown up enough! A puppy id agree! But they just think we are being bossy and they know a baby is hard work but they really dont hey! My son is 10 now and he was an easy easy baby but in noways was it easy if you know what i mean!
Cath xx

Unfortunatly life is full of surprises (not all nice) and hard practical matters - the first is that one never knows who will be around to take care of the baby - if your boyfriend left, and/or your parents were no longer there (remember traffic accidents happen to anyone), how would you survive? And your baby?

I would wait until you will able to take care of the baby yourself, no matter what happened. Otherwise, you are potentially putting yourself and other people in a serious position of having to pay for and care for a child when they may not expect it.

I have a friend who had a downs syndrome baby at a young age, it wasn't what she or her boyfriend expected, and ultimately her parents ended up with the responsibility of raising the child... they were not prepared for or wanting to have to raise a baby - but they ended up with no choice.

Anyway, just some additional things to think about.
In my mind age is less important that the ability to pay your own way, as well as your child's way - even if something happens to your, your boyfriend, or your parents.

hi im 13 nd i wanna baby but i dont know wot 2 do i dunno if my bf will wont 1 i dunno how 2 tell him that i wont a baby nd i love lil ones

Hi Im qay and If u really want a baby just Beat Around the bush with it like ask question like whatif i got Pregnant see what he says or play around with him and see what happens and if he give go responses then tell him you want a baby. there maybe a big change in his ways but give it a try i told my boufriend hes not ready hes what in tell you get in the 12th grade or it happens it happen im waiting hust for him see what he says and get bac to me Ookay!! love Qay

hi girls. I am an oldie (36) but have been around the block a coupla times and had plenty of good and also a hell of alot of bad things happen in my life. I am on to my second marriage and I hope it stays that way. I have 2 lovely daughters (14 and 6 years old). I had an abortion at 16, 19 and sadly another one when I was 28 (this baby had trisomie 21 - mongolism). I also had a premi baby born in the 6th month of pregnancy - she died 1hour after being born. I am now pregnant again in the 17th week and until now all is going well. I can only advise you girls to really stop and think about life and what you are wanting...We as women can do it on our own (very tough though) and to have an understanding and loving partner is everybodys dream and to have babies is also the teenage dream but think a little bit beyond the moment. Hey and when you decide you are old enough and your wants are not just for the moment than I wish you all luck. Take care.

i think its gr8 dat u wanna bring a wee baby in2 da world but y now ? when u r just startin high school ? ne way if any1 is against u havin a baby then f**k them. if u want one go 4 it

hi my name is summer im 13 and i want a baby too i havent talk to my mom yet but my bfs mom is all for it im scared to tell me mom that i wnat to have one but you a brave to tell your mom girl if you want to bring another human in this world then go for i suport you with every choise you make hope you have a great life with your baby if you choose to hyave one and i hope you have a great time in your pregnacy i hope i get pregnant soon! with love
summer 13.