hi my nme is summer im 13 and i have a boyfriend.we love each other uncunditionally we arent able to see each other any more and i want to see him we have planned to have a baby soon.His mom is all for it but my parents would kill me if they found out i need some advice i need to be with my bf i love babys and i want to brignanother human in this world please give me some advice!

Your 13 years old and u have so much time to bring a child into this world! Wait! Babies are hard work and you dont know whether your bf will actually stick around. Finish school- have some sort of career and a bit of fun then have a baby!

You bf may leave you
Your parents may die or be otherwise unable to support you or your baby
Your baby may be born downs syndrome or disabled
You may become injured or disabled
You may die and have to leave your baby to be cared for by someone else
You may be limited in terms of school or jobs due to you having to care for a baby

I am sorry I sound depressing - but to have a baby you need to be able to cope with the bad as well as the good, and all the things that can go wrong.

Some things, like independent financial support are just impossible when you are 13 years old. Others are out of your control - which is why trying to have a baby 'in secret' is a terrible thing to do - what if the burden of care falls on your parents or your boyfriend's parents? Is it fair on them, after they have had their own children? Not really - or at least you won't know how they feel, unless you have discussed it with them.

So what you do is your decision - but remember, life is life and not everything works perfectly for everyone. Then what will happen? You have to be prepared.

I am 16 and have a daughter called Eliza who is 2 weeks old, I was 15 when I got pregnant and even though I love babies it wasnt a wise decision to have no protection because now i might have to pull out of school at an earlier age, how long how you nkown your current boyfriend?All im saying is that, even if you love babies as much as I do or something wait until you can hold yourself together, lots of us at 13 are still playing with dolls in secret and stuff ok? Lyz has woken up, ahhhhh cya ,jules

hi summer. i'm stacey. i'm 13 too and i absoulutley adore babies. i have a baby brother. he's 7 months and reli cute. i dont mean 2 be a wee bit funny but........dont you think your a little young ? hm, ? i wud luv 2 av a kid miself although my dad would never forgive me for avin sex at such a young age. mi dad doesnt want me 2 be a ghirl that gets on a bus or is in the town and people say ' oh my god look at the age of hern she has a baby'. the name's dat people r gettin called ni 4 dat is awful.

lets say u n ur boyfriend av sex n u get pregnant,,, ryt ? ni, how wud u be able 2 tell ur mum and dad and wat wud they think

( i no this, my best friend was in the same boat and got pregnant at 14, she told her parents and they cudnt believe it. the people in the street turn theirnoses up at her n call her all sorts )

try thinkin dis 1 out 1st