Okay, me and my husband were apart for a while... i slept with someone else on Nov 30th my last period started @ Nov 24, N e Ways. me and my husband got back together but we waited to have sex untill the 11,12,13,14,15,16 of Dec, a early ultrasound ( 2 ) both stated the 12 was the day of conception. my monthly cycles range from 32-34 days... I don't and never had a normal 28 day period.... Everything adds up to my husband being the father, which i really hope it is... maybe it's my guilt, but it's not like he wasn't with anyone either... i just don't want a abortion.. anyone have any advice..... whats my chances it's not my husbands baby

I wouldn't worry, dating scans are very good and if they say l2 then go by that. Obviously there is an outside chance but considering you had sex once on 24th and then were bonking mad in December I would have thought baby your husbands. Whether to share your worries or not? Why don't you simply talk to Radiographer at your 20 week anomally scan. I am fairly sure that all babies grow the same until l9 weeks or so and then they grow genetically so I would have thought that if they say baby conceived on l2th then thats right but radiographer will be able to tell you exactly. Good luck and no one can moralize. If we judge others they might just turn the mirror round and judge us back. We all do things that upon reflection we perhaps shouldn't thats why were are human darling good luck

Did you find out who the father is? I am wondering how things are going an so on.
Hope to hear from you soon
Babydreams

I REALLY think u should talk 2 yer BF about this situation, its not fair 2 keep him thinkin he is the daddy if he aint. If u say he was sleeping with other people when u split then he cant really critise u but i think maybe u should c about a DNA test. As the girl below pointed out... 'WHY DIDNT U USE ANYTHING' just remember next time u think of sleeping with someone without using anything what kind of situation yer in now. Please think about talking 2 him it really isnt fair on him, and if he care's about u then he will stand by u. Good luck

OUCH!!! Well as someone already said...You wont know for sure till you get blood test...One Q...You actually slept with someone whos Not your husband or even a BF without any Protection!?!? HELLOOOO!!!

I hate to say this, but it usually takes a week for conception. It still could be ur husbands but you wont know until you have it and get blood test.Hope all goes well for you.

-amanda