Adopting
HI~ MY HUSBAND AND I WERE MARRIED 8 YEARS BEFORE HAVING OUR FIRST SON.YEARS OF INFERTAILTY. THEN WE HAD A SECOND SON. WELL, YEARS DOWN THE ROAD WHEN OUR YOUNGEST WAS 9,WE GOT A CALL FROM A RELATIVE OF HIS.SHE WANTED TO GIVE HER UNBORN CHILD UP FOR ADOPTION. I TOLD HER WE WERE NOT THE FAMILY. OUR BOYS WERE 12 AND 9 AND WE WERE OUT OF THE BABY STAGE. SO I TOLD MY HUSBAND WHEN HE GOT HOME AND HE SAID LORD NO. OUR CHILDREN ARE OLD ENOUGH THAT WE DONT HAVE TO BE WITH THEM EVER SECOND.(BUT DEEP DOWN INSIDE I ALWAYS WANTED A DAUGHTER) WELL 4 DAYS LATER MY HUSBAND WOKE UP AND SAID, WE ARE SUPOSE TO ADOPTED THIS BABY. I THOUGHT WHERE DID THAT COME FROM. WE "OUR WHOLE FAMILY" started taking her to her dr. appt. and my husband AND I WERE IN THE DELIVERY ROOM,HE CUT THE CORD,HELD HER FIRST,AND I PROUDLY WALKED HER TO THE NURSERY.WE GAVE HER,HER FIRST BATH. AND TOOK OUR 4LB. 1OZ. BEAUTIFUL BABY GIRL HOME. SHE IS AMAZING. SHE IS 16 MONTHS OLD, SHE KEEPS US LAUGHING ALL THE TIME. SHES A DADDYS GIRL,THEN THE BOYS,GIRL. I GET THE LEFT OVERS.THATS OK, I LOVE EVERY MINUTE OF IT. I WONDER HOW I GO ABOUT TELLING HER THOUGH.AND WHEN IS THE BEST TIME? ANY SUGGESTIONS??????????? THANKS, TAMMY
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