He cums too quickly!!!


my boyfriend who ive been with nearly 3 months now, everytime we have sex he cums within minutes. its gd, but i never reach orgasm. the longest weve ever been havin sex is prob just less than 10 or 15 minutes!!! i want him to go longer. last time we had sex he came just under 2 minutes or so, and claimed its cos im 'just too good' but i dont believe him? is it really cos im 'just too good' or does he have something wrong with him? i heard that guys who pre ejaculate usually hav a lack of confidence in the bedroom department, which may be true but i duno whether that is it! I just really wanna know why he does it, and want we can do together to keep him going longer..cos i know i could go on ALLLLL night!!!


Here's what i do

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Or you can just masturbate him first, make him cum, wait for atleast 5 to 10 minutes while fondling and hell sure be Up again witht the promise of longer sexual longevity the 2nd time around.


you help him

you have to help you to have a more lasting relationship ... try to relax him caress you ever longer foreplay and you'll see that will improve its performance


Hope this helps

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He pumped too fast!

Hi madame2660, I think he needs to give you a longer foreplay like 20 minutes at least before sexual intercourse. Also, he most probably pumped too fast. When pumping fast, penis head tends to get overly sensitive and heart rate rises fast. The arousal was too high for him to handle and he ejaculated prematurely. Therefore, he needs to slow down and learn how to breathe slowly to lower the heart rate and arousal level. Here is the right technique of breathing while having sex:

1) Inhale for 3 seconds
2) Hold for 3 seconds
3) Exhale for 3 seconds

Repeat. By focusing on the breathing, he can take his mind off the excitement and arousal to delay his ejaculation and prolong the sex session. That way, both of you can enjoy longer sex. If he needs some sex techniques guide to make you orgasm, ask him to read this book: http://www.amazon.com/dp/B01AL7VAHS



Dude suck his ... and just be flirty Mahe he doesn't really want you all my tines with this one girl I've gone at it three times. Yea some times I nut quick but I'll go back into it idk and no trust me it's not you an less you tighten up your pussy and that still won't even do the trick longest I've gone is like 30 2 40 min



Tell him to beat his meat before y'all have sex



This disorder is called premature ejaculation. He can try the medicines that include an enzyme inhibitor called Dapoxetine.


Generic priligy (dapoxetine)

Tell your hubby to try the new drug Priligy (Generic Nameapoxetine) which generally can make the man last 3 times long (the 60 mg pill). I'm actually having this problem. Since I've been using Priligy from www.generic-meds-store.com, I've felt so much more in control of my sex life and would recommend it to anybody with a long term problem. I am not saying that it's a miracle cure, but I have noticed a definite improvement in how long I have been able to have sex for since using it.


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Hey madame2660,

I know exactly what your talking about, I have a boyfriend for almost 2 years now and we've been there. What helped a little bit was when he started masturbating daily, even about 20 minutes before sex but that becomes tiring and unpleasant over time. The sex just started becoming more of a duty than pleasure.... We've tried some creams and even pills but only one that is really working for us is "xperform". Im sure you can just google it, ive actually discussed that on many discussions before and with positive replies!!!

Hope that helps a little...


What i can tell you from the mans perspective.

My ex wife would do the same thing to me. She was just to tight. It felt too good. Possibly your man isn't circumcised either, so he has more sensation too. They do offer Desensitizers for this type of problem. Of course the issue is that if he puts it on his package, then penetrates you, he's going to get some on you too. He could wear a condom, that would take some feeling away. You could use toys more often so your not so tight. Or just use lots of lube.


Too quickly

my boyfriend had the same issue when we first started having sex. I think I was too tight at the time and he was a little too excited. Things have gotten better.


Delightful hands

He can learn to use his hands to give you several orgasms before entering you with his penis. That should satisfy you every time. Check out Delightful Hands: Techniques for Intimacy at Amazon.com. It works.


Hello madame2660

i hope you would find this message in the best of your health,
When i do sex daily with girl so first of all before inserting my ... in to her cute pussy, i go for loveplay (oral sex) kiss her all body a lot, especially (1) i touch, hold,fondle,kiss,lick,suck her breasts, nipples alot (2) i touch, vibrate, kiss,lick, suck her cute pussy (especially her clitoris).
when she become hot, wet and irresistible asking for insertion of ... then i insert my huge,long,hot ... in to her cute pussy and pump her alot for atleast 20-35 minutes until she screams alot and gets orgasm and asked me to stop.
(during pumping her i try to delay my ejaculation timing by looking at her beautiful,cute face and try to read her facial expressions that how much she enjoys and some times i try to disperse my mind attention by start watching tv, changing sex position, inhale oxygen deeply, she often grab my testicles balls, counting numbers in my mind in reverse order,etc.)
Please ask your boyfriend to do these few tricks ,that will help him to delay ejaculation timing before you cum.




Techniques to elim. p.e.

A new Amazon.com ebook called Delightful Hands has a good cure for premature ejaculation. Some other great orgasm techniques as well. Check out www.bookdh.com for more info. This should be a big help. Good luck.


Few options...

There is a few options available, one is to train the penis into slowing down, for example, when he get the sensation of coming simply get him to cut off the circulation to the end of his penis with his hand until the feeling goes away, then he can carry on. And over a period of time this gap before he gets the feeling of need to cum will grow.

Alternatively try using some delay creams such as this one, it will help assist him: http://www.yourplaything.co.uk/creams-sprays/70-stud-d-lay-cream.html


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I got amazed for many of the posts...

Blame bad male timing on women? how OLD is that way of thinking??? Sorry men, but THERE IS premature ejaculation, and there are many posible factors, health and stress among the most popular, and could also be serious ones that you may need to check with your doctor. I actually read the forum looking for a way to overcome it, since in recent times i've been suffering from it, specially in "good" moments... So, yes women take longer to reach their orgasm, thats why foreplay SHOULD be learn by men, so we can enjoy better the art of making love to a woman. Of course, testosterone, culture and age play important factor on how you want to perform, but if you get satisfied and dont really care about your partner satisfaction.

I think that the most important factor is your level of fitness, (well, the penis erection is supported by blood flowing thru it...), and I've know that 14 years ago I could last 2 hours, and now im looking to solve the 2 minutes problem... main difference, physical fitness. The days I excersise do seem to last longer, or have a quick first, then stay hard for a long second. And regular excersise also helps with the stress problem. Stress is a sex drive killer.

Every men should read the Ananga Aranga (kinda like the Kamasutra of foreplay), and both sex most understand that sex is the ultimate level of physical comunication, you may say "I love you", of may be saying.. "I only love myself..." your choice...


Discuss with him and do this .......

tell him the fact and tell him to remove your clothes and ask him that he must remove all your clothes before removing his clothes and ask him to rub your body and kiss your body till 15 min and after that he must finger you for 5 min. then he should remove his clothes and start ... you

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